When your five-year old self-dresses in tights and a shirt, how do you explain to her that she needs to wear more clothes when she lives in a city of people wearing leggings? What is the difference between wearing tights and leggings?
Why do I grieve the death of her biological uncle who I have never met, and she probably does not remember? How/when do I tell of his passing?
When someone asks where is she from, am I being snarky or honest to say the name of our city?
What hoarder instinct does the library bring out? We always leave with more books than we can easily walk home.