“No selfishness or insecurity kept him from seeing the full extent of her goodness, as it so often does with the rest of us.” – Tris in Insurgent by Veronica Roth, p. 377
Sounds like agape to me. Unconditional love. Who is it hard from me to love? What insecurity or selfishness distracts me from recognizing what is good, admirable? God can offer this unconditional love because He is selfless and completely secure.